How to find happiness

What is happy life and happiness in general? What it? What does consist in? I think that everyone once thought of all these questions. For all, happiness different. As showed social poll, many imagine happiness in the form of abstraction. Some do not know at all that to answer the question "whether you are happy".

In my opinion to opinion, happiness can be an attainable aim (thing). If the person has purposes and from their execution he will become happy, confident in the future, then he knows where and how to look for the happiness. And at some people everything develops differently. For them search of happiness is similar to a huge labyrinth with a set of deadlocks, and they as if a small mouse, wander there for years in search of an exit (the happiness). Others find the happiness in possession of things, but then understand that they it not it (their happiness), and rush in other party of life, trying to meet the physical desires. Really search of happiness is useless and occupation without result? To possess any thing (subject) there is no happiness as we will feel only temporary satisfaction. Behind them (objects, things) there is always a large amount of other requirements which want to be carried out in reality too. In that case, we are only dependent on all these benefits (things) and happy it obviously does not make us.

Correctly say that happiness cannot be bought! It can only be found... As it was told earlier, it is not a temporary state. Perhaps, it is results of your skill which you tried to obtain long ago, developed and brought up in themselves. But, if to characterize happiness in an image of your state, then it obvious any not euphoria and delusion. Happiness is expressed in tranquility, balance and harmony, your confidence, measured joy and satisfaction with life. Actually, joy lives in each of us. It can be reached due to work on by itself. This formation of positive and correct thinking. At first you reach all this in yourself, and then everything comes remained. It is impossible to find happiness, having just taken, for example, having moved to the new residence, having taken baggage of the sincere problems which in way you could not solve. Even if you will have a lot of money, expensive cars, etc., at the same time you are constantly not self-assured, have fears and dissatisfaction, then it is obviously impossible to call you happy.

Secrets of happy life

1. Do not complain of life. Of course, if this phrase is seen by psychologists, then it is at once disproved as consider that the person needs to be uttered in case of a manor of problems. It is worth complaining less of what or someone as constant moaning about the problems, says that you cannot cope with them. In our modern "vanity", the person has no time to think of the problems and ways of their elimination. Though actually everything is simple. If you are able to solve a problem, then just eliminate it, and if not, then present that it was the annoying situation which there is no sense to discuss with someone.

2. Never about what not to be sorry. Do not think constantly the fact that once made something is not right. Not to return the past, but mistakes can teach us to much. Simply to learn the lessons "not to miss" in the future". It is necessary to live further!

3. To find the purpose. Make the personal plan of your life and implement it. The most important to understand that we want to receive from life. Moving slowly to the purposes, you begin to get happiness. If there is a purpose, then it is always easier to transfer unloved work and all life. The main thing that the purpose was not false.

4. To develop skill "I will become happy". Everything is not be fine on one wave of a magic wand. This skill develops in the person on condition of everyday work on itself day after day. Unfortunate to be easier, than happy. Better it is possible to know himself by means of meditation which will help to release and clean the mind.

It is not necessary to change the life sharply. Every day, do a small short step in yourself forward and it is possible, you will achieve harmony, success, confidence, wellbeing and the most important... HAPPINESS!