Convince yourself of the confidence and anybody will not have in it doubts!

It is sure, each of you at least once heard that ourselves are creators of the happiness that we first of all have to fall in love and accept ourselves, and then we are waited by the same happiness, only already from other people. I do not know as you, and I trust in it and I completely agree with it.

The person who does not love himself which has complex because of the appearance or any other qualities, people in himself uncertain is allocated at once. No, he it is not obligatory how the bright and flickering spot, is seen in crowd, drawing attention of all passersby with the shyness and shyness. And here if you are familiar with such person if you communicate with him long time, you will feel that there is with it "something not so".

It is not important how at the same time the person looks what position he holds, how old is he and that he eats for breakfast if he is not confident in himself if he is not excited about himself, he will manage to be overpersuaded in the return vryad.

And there is other type of people who just shine from within directly, a continuous positive and joy.
They are never disturbed by neither completeness, nor a small hump on a nose, they do not follow the fashion and modern trends, they are happy in the world, so are happy in surrounding reality what it would not be.

Often happens so: two girlfriends, one beauty and the woman of fashion, and another more modest, not having fashionable gadgets, magnificent hair and chubby lips. But men as under carbon paper, choose it, but not her beauty the girlfriend, other girls want to be on friendly terms with her, it is soul of the company and the general favourite. Why so?

Because internal energy of the person is so big that for it has no values neither a floor, nor age, nor appearance, nor that another. It is visible, despite everything, it will decorate any who possesses it.
How to achieve that and from you energy burst forth, you were sure of yourself, shone always and in any company? Personally I am helped by the things stated below.

Fall in love with the identity.
To spit what color your eyes what size you prefer a breast how many you weigh kilogram and what style in clothes. The nature created you it, only, the best on anybody unlike. Even if your acquaintance has hand birthmark, in the same place, as at you, be sure that at it she is several millimeters more right or is more left, and it already means that it not such, but just similar. Such as you are not present any more, and any more anybody does not have what you have.

Fall in love with the opportunities.
Perhaps, you did not manage to reach unearthly tops, you do not bring together stadiums and you are not in the list Forbes. But your mushrooms pies, biting off with itself fingers, all whom you only know sweep away, and expensively your most fashionable girlfriends are ready to buy your knitted socks.
Whether you draw pictures gouache, do a beautiful hair or write ridiculous verses, these are yours ability, your highlight and your merit. Always you remember that someone would give everything learning to sew or state so beautifully the thoughts as you.

Fall in love with the life, such what it is.
Let you sometimes have money or attention, let you had no holiday or cardinal change of image long ago, let you see off every summer at the dacha, but not at the sea. You appreciate what you have, a huge number of people has, is even afraid to dream that it seems to you nonsense and the ordinary.
Someone adores cats, but has a terrible allergy while you rebuke, on what light, the Muska. Someone is so poor that is not able to afford winter and warm clothes while you are distressed over the fact that you should go to work as this winter in a coat from last collection.
It is impossible to receive bigger, without having fallen in love with what you have now.

When you understand that you are a personality that you can be proud of yourself only for the fact that you just are, your life will gain other sense and will play new paints. Everything will appear in other light, you will want to live, create, change for the better, and all this, beyond all doubt, will give you unprecedented confidence and internal light which attracts good luck as a magnet.