Let's develop in itself confidence...

Often at the solution of important and serious questions in our life we stop and we do not move forward because of diffidence and the forces. It is such annoying moment of our life which does not give freedom of action and tranquility. Without self-confidence it is difficult to achieve the desirable objectives. It is difficult to decide on an act if arise thoughts in the head: "And whether I will be able to make it? Whether I am worthy it?" Insufficiently self-assured person doubts the ability to achieve goals, is quite often pessimistic estimates the opportunities and prospects.


However you should not despond, everyone, having made certain efforts, can increase self-confidence!
Therefore I think it is worth trying even if you are quite self-assured. And as absolutely self-assured I do not feel, by all means it is necessary in all ways to try to obtain increase in a self-assessment and acquisition of confidence.
First, to feel sure, I think, support of the family is simply necessary, it is necessary to see that your thoughts of an invention and affairs are important for someone and matter.


Secondly it is just necessary to think positively and to look positively at life. It is necessary to throw out all negative thoughts or to try to remake them in positive "I will be able to make it", "I have to try!"


Thirdly it is necessary to distinguish the talents, to learn to be proud of them. Occupation fascinating business, will allow to feel the advantages and uniqueness.


Fourthly, the appearance is important. The confident person it is visible from it is far, he has a sure gait, an equal back, well-groomed appearance. All this set of many factors, such such as, sports activities, good healthy sleep, consumption of tasty and healthy food, and, above all love to. Your appearance should not cause in you thoughts that in you something is not right.


Fifthly, is not necessary are afraid of the unknown if you do not try, then you do not learn what it is capable of.


Sixthly be attentive to others. If you see that your interlocutor keeps uncertainly, try to encourage him, to calm and support.


And in the seventh - smile, the smile gives good mood not only to people around, but also the most important to you. And the good spirit is an engine of progress)))


And still the way to confidence is very hard daily work, fight against itself and the fears is very not easy and in one day not to achieve result, but it is worth it. And I already on the way to achievement of this purpose.
Of course there is still a set of ways for confidence development, but in my opinion the most important not to be overzealous and not to turn confidence into self-confidence and not to put on airs
I hope my councils will be for someone useful.

I not difficult way,
I on the way big,
In the solution of questions
I need day after day.
To decide on an act
To me it is very heavy,
But it is not possible to live so
And to all winds on the evil...
I instill confidence
I slowly in
I hope for relatives
I hope all not for nothing...
And me it is not terrible at all
I will achieve the
Also I will smile
To all winds on the evil...

I thank for attention!!!