To meet love the task difficult!

At all times it was difficult to find the person to whom there will be a mutual love.

In my opinion, it became especially difficult from 1980th years. Before got acquainted on dances, on evenings in various educational institutions, at exhibitions and thematic meetings with the famous people, etc. But dances consigned to the past! Today passed by "Island" and it was terrified by a condition of this place of our city park. Once there was a round, artificially created island around which the channel was dug. It was possible to get on it, perydya the beautiful bridge. On the channel it was possible to drive if desired by the boat. On this island there was a dance pavilion, was on sale frozen, gas-water, juice and other simple products of Soviet period. The channel turned into a dirty ditch, and the island became just huge mountain of garbage!

Working at the university, I noticed that even effective girls are lonely. Took an interest at one of the diplomnitsa what she answered: "Hardly is enough for our children of money for food therefore they even anybody do not meet. Only Caucasians are active, but you know that they do not marry Russians. Then why they are necessary? Only time and nerves to lose!"

When I studied in higher education institution, to a thesis defense almost all little girls were is already married. Married correspondence students who often were production managers, for students who already served army and worked at the enterprises a little to get a referral for study, for local guys, etc. And here time when all sit on rooms in front of the computers came and do not communicate with an opposite sex. Now - is already more often with phones.

And what to do? How to find the soulmate?

In one story by Victoria Tokareva the girl specially went to sanatoria where often gave permits to military. It - is correct! When we need products, we go to shop where a good selection. Means, it makes sense to go to sanatorium!

My acquaintance, having become a widow/widower in 26 years, went with the son to Rostov-on-Don and got a job in military unit! As I rejoice, looking at its photos in Schoolmates! She married the officer, at it now the little daughter grows! She is happy! Just she wanted to have family, the husband.

I do not claim that this scheme is ideal: some families, on the contrary, do not want to burden themselves with children. My friend has a son with the daughter-in-law - "child-free". They travel around the country, recently on Kamchatka were. They - together are also happy!

They got acquainted at work. They say, together to work - not the best option. I do not know, can they just in one building work at different floors. We quite so worked with the husband in higher education institution: at different departments, in the neighboring buildings.

There are, of course, unusual ways of acquaintance. I have a girlfriend Natasha whom slightly in 50 years. Clear head, beauty, needlewoman! Sews, knits, does nails to itself, there is an equipment corresponding. She divorced the first husband in severe 1990th years. He was a pilot and suddenly there was no work in rural aircraft. The child was little, it could not go for work, and he did nothing! Generally, quarrels because even the famous actor Vladimir Ivashov those years sold vodka at the Kazan station began to support family. As a result the husband packed things and left the house at first to the friend, then married.

Years 16 Natasha lived alone with the daughter in the house presented by parents. Changed several places of work, having decided to leave from a teaching routine. Unexpectedly in her life the man appeared. Once studied at one school, were pleasant each other, but the guy was ashamed to offer friendship, and after army she was already married. When he divorced, found Natasha in Schoolmates and, at last, decided to act. Arrived to our city to her, and the big house in the urban-type settlement sold and could buy housing for the son and the daughter.

He was a builder. They built with Natasha the new house in the good area, but did not manage to live. Once she came from work, and it lies on a sofa. Told that left work: bothered! It is difficult to find work in our city, and it had a salary more, than Natasha received for 1.5 rates in higher education institution.

Having a rest on a sofa, the husband began to state claims. He decided that Natasha spends money for herself much! He expressed discontent that at her there is a lot of cosmetics and varnishes of different flowers, and it is just "money to burn"! And at her everything is thought over, and each varnish - under a certain image!

Natasha surprised me. She told it: "Quickly packed things and went, up hill and down dale!" He went to Rostov, lodged for a while at the daughter, wrote then in WhatsApp that he was not right, but Natasha was unshakable! Still: she sews, knits, dyes hair in blond at home, does manicure and a pedicure independently! Generally, the person did not estimate its advantages! And them at it - the sea! It, for example, independently designed furniture for kitchen, ordered cutting, and then found the master who collected this furniture from the making details! Personally I admire this woman! She to herself shotirovat eyebrows, so I - did not notice! Color is picked very accurately up, absolutely naturally look! To the master went to the neighboring city, according to the recommendation!

They lived with the husband of 7 years and ran up precisely according to the theory! It is considered that in 7 years in family there come crisis and people often get divorced.
In May of last year Natasha was at restaurant: her girlfriend celebrated the Birthday. She looked, as always, fantastically! She decided to have a rest on full, to enjoy the festive atmosphere. Visits of restaurant became a rarity in recent years: Kovid was, - any anniversaries.

Generally, she danced to exhaustion, doing not pass any melody!

In 2 days it was called by the girlfriend and told: "You remember at restaurant at the next table celebrated the Birthday of the man. He with you once danced, and then did not lower from you eyes, I saw! And so, he arrived to restaurant and asked the phone number of the heroine of the anniversary. They did not begin to give the phone number, but called me and I talked to it. It told that you very much were pleasant to it therefore wants to contact you. I gave it your phone number: the man is free, normally looks. He will call you, and you already decide what with it to do!"

So Natasha got acquainted with the person with whom she already cast in the lot. I saw them: both shine happiness! Were in the summer at the sea, in the fall - in sanatorium.

Happiness can be found at any age! I am glad for Natasha: she was not afraid of loneliness and left the man who did not appreciate it.

I wish all charmelka good luck in private life! The main thing not to be afraid of anything and to appreciate itself! Love to - only, which for the rest of life!