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Dadidi: "I do not love the conflicts and in someone's quarrels always I act as the peacekeeper"

Dadidi: "Не люблю конфликты и в чьих-то ссорах всегда выступаю миротворцем"
The spring turned away from us: on the street it is gray and is gloomy, the sky frowns, the sun does not shine, cold. I do not know as at you, maycharmelk, but I in such days always have low an efficiency, the mood often falls and I look for all ways to be warmed (in direct and figurative meanings). One of such ways - conversations in "Heart-felt dialogue". Today, for example, we talked to the person without whom Maycharm it is impossible to present the organizer of a hair marathon both just very active user and the interesting personality - our Dadidi. Let's be warmed together!

Dasha, you have very beautiful and unusual nickname. Tell how it to you came whether there is some interesting story, related?

Well to tell... the history of my nickname is uninteresting, but I all the same will tell)
There was 2009 whether 2010, "ICQ" at that time was still popular. Probably, many remember that period. And then at some point I had a need to think up to itself "name", something easily memorable and something close to me on spirit. Then I took the first two letters of the name and attached to them the first letters of some buttons. (If you remember, then in those far times all phones were with buttons and the ruble was more expensive on which was on several letters.) But to answer a question why I chose these letters, I not will be able It there was some momentary rush, but these six letters became me so native that I perceive the nickname as the second name.

For me it something like that close that if people around call me on a nickname, I will respond on it)
And many ask: what does it mean? Yes means nothing - simply invented word which became attached to me for a long time.

And I am sure that nobody from charmelek knows on what syllable it is necessary to put an accent (at least, in my understanding and as I call myself)
If it is correct to read it, then we put an accent on the first syllable. Admit, someone from you puts an accent on the first syllable?))
Well and, by the way, I came to this website under other name) But, probably, already nobody remembers it.

Nobody will begin to argue that the most valuable in human life, its support and support, joy and often meaning of life are a family. Tell about the family.

Someone under the concept "family" includes all the numerous relatives, relatives and some distant blood relatives. For me the family is specific people (despite multiple family relations).
Will be to tell more precisely that I have two families. One - which I created and the second - which created me.
The first are my children and the husband, the second is a brother, the sister and two nephews. That's all what I have.

From 11 years the sister who is more senior than me for twelve years was engaged in my education and cultivation. My difficult character, the teenage period and all difficulties connected with it fell to its lot. Thanks to it huge for the fact that endured all this because some moments, so to say, were complicated)

When to me it was executed 16, I understood that there are not enough close people in my life and decided to get them somewhere. And the thought that I need the child became the first that came to my mind.

Probably, expected long term Close people are necessary always, and children grow over time and become such people, and was decided to give birth)

So in my life Alice appeared. Today to it 7.5 years and every day I notice in it the disgusting traits of character, well than not the loved one more and more?

Other children were already unplanned, but not less favourite) Sometimes the accident is not casual, and in our family one and a half years later one more family member - Adelija appeared. She is 6 years old soon, and in her I see the support and the help in the future. If the oldest daughter all in me, the same irresponsible idler, then in the second daughter I see more pleasant lines)

And the son Alan who was born 3 more years later became even more unexpected emergence in our family. So far it is unclear that to assign to it, but I hope will not disappoint)
Here so I also became mother having many children in 21 years)


Many ask a reasonable question: how do you cope with everything?
In reply I just smile and I answer something it seems "well somehow so". If to speak honestly, then I do not cope absolutely. It seems to me, this mission in the life I failed. To be mother... It appeared, this not so mine. Having given birth to three children, I understood that I from category of those women who do career, but do not start a family. Therefore at each opportunity I try to run away from the house for work, having passed responsibility for children on the father)

And if I began, I will a little tell also about it. In our family an authority is the father at whom it turns out to get on with children, probably, in all spheres much better. Even during a disease of children from me the assistant useless therefore here too responsibility on the father)) This list can be continued infinitely, but, I think, and so it is clear whom what parts are assigned in our family: I am irresponsible lazy mother, the father - responsible, but too lazy, and a lot of the disobedient, but pleasing children is and there is my family)

Tell about the profession, work. Whom did you want to become in the childhood?


Whom did I want to become in the childhood? It is a shame to admit, but "mandelyyu" there Were to me then less than 5 years. With my growing also preferences changed) But I do not remember that in my thoughts there was something grandiose like the ballerina or the singer or still something like that. I chose from the most usual professions like the seller (by the way, it turns out that the dream came true).

Already being at the age of reason, I understood to what pulls me more, and began to prepare for examination in English to arrive on something connected with tourism. But, unfortunately, my dream was not fated to come true, and I arrived only in a year after leaving school on faculty of informatics. 3 months later I was convinced that the informatics - at all not in what I want to be engaged, took the academic vacation, but so it is more and did not return there. Therefore it is possible to tell that educations at me only 11 classes and 3 months of the university.
But I never regretted about the act. Arrive I differently, just would lose 5 years of the life.
And only recently I finally understood to what at me soul lies, but I do not want to study still
But, if nevertheless interests you what my soul dreams of, then I will tell that it is journalism... or psychology... or linguistics... well and as a last resort, philology.


But slightly above I nevertheless told lies to you having told that I have only 11 classes)
Actually, I have a diploma of the seamstress, but to address me in this area I do not advise you therefore when I am asked about my education, I do not take this diploma into account

Now my favourite question: what character at you? Tell us, maycharmelka, about those parties of character which we do not even guess.

For a start I will tell that about myself I can talk endlessly if only listeners were))
In general, many consider me cynical, insensible and simply speaking with bitchy character. Probably, and I will agree with these people I will not lie that I am the gentle and kind person loving animals and ready to come to the rescue any minute. It at all not about me.

Here I appreciate friendship therefore I have very few friends. But to everyone it is ready to render the feasible help, to give up all the affairs, to give the last shirt and other. But speaking about friendship, I nevertheless consider myself the lonely person, not because there is nobody nearby but because to me it is so comfortable. Therefore I can tell about myself that I am an introvert.
The introvert is when nobody is necessary to you, but sometimes is a little bit necessary. This phrase it is possible to describe me.
I am tired by a long talk, too active and talkative people and questions which it is necessary to answer. Proceeding from it, I can tell that I do not like to report for the acts and I treat surrounding people also.
I do not look for justifications to someone's actions. I never take offense. And I am not able to show the emotions.
From outside it seems that it is absolute it is indifferent, but actually I just do not know how to express me the emotions. In family life it creates some difficulties, but to me is so very comfortable.

I am a realist, but at the same time constantly I am in the world which I created to myself. There constantly music plays and there is something pleasant for me. At this time I do not notice at all what occurs around - children can destroy the house nearby, but I just abstract from it. Earphones in ears and a tishinaa
In general, in my character a set of contradictions which, in my opinion, harmoniously supplement each other.

Who are you on zodiac sign? How do you consider whether it affected your character?


This question, probably, as continuation previous because, telling about the character, I involuntarily notice features of the zodiac sign. Therefore influence here unconditional)

Steadiness - probably, one of the main qualities of my sign. I - scales. And yes, I counterbalanced) it is very difficult to enrage Me, but if it happened, then hide all. Because I begin to shout, go into hysterics inadequately and even to somebody I can give slap) At such moments absolutely I do not control myself. And so I quiet)
And problems in private life or at work can discompose. Therefore I for harmony in everything)

And in general fully to answer this question, I had to take an interest at the all-knowing Internet what distinctive features representatives of my sign have.
- Amorousness. It not about me. But I very quickly become attached to people and if I fall in love, then it for a long time and for me excruciatingly painful. Therefore the greatest fear for me is to fall in love.

- Indecision. Here precisely. Always I am afraid of some undertakings, actions and adoption of important decisions. I do not like anything to solve, but at the same time all important decisions in family are made by me.


- Levity. Only give me vent - and I will jump as that butterfly from a flower on a flower Flirtation, extravagance and other accompanying - all this about me)) Therefore with men to me is much easier to communicate, than with women)

- Justice. And here I am a true advocate.) Always I am on its side)

- I do not love the conflicts and in someone's quarrels always I act as the peacekeeper) And itself I try to reconcile somewhat quicker after the quarrel, otherwise at heart is restless.

- As true Scales, I love attention) But when there is too much it, it enters me into a discomfortable state.

- Despite love to family, I am weighed by household chores and I feel the need of communication outdoors.

- I can long do nothing, and then suddenly covers passionate desire to work. It concerns both the household moments, and, for example, writing articles and reviews)

If you open some horoscope about Scales, then everything that there is written, can refer to my character)
The only thing that does not concern me, is a sociability. Probably, I took the reticence from some other sign Exception I do only for interesting people, then I am ready to speak and listen for hours and hours)

Crazy acts do our life brighter and more interesting if, of course, this "sumasshedstviye" is sent to the peaceful course. Tell about the most mad act in your life.

I consider myself the reckless girl who is easy for "lining" on some adventure. Therefore mad acts in my life are enough about which you will tell even not everyone. Therefore let all my mad acts will remain at me, I will tell only about one)
This story how I married. Probably, it is also the most mad act)) Not because it was not necessary to do it, and it is all about how I in general decided on it)

I will begin with the fact that there were to me then 18 years. We quite to ourselves happily lived together with mine now the husband, but at once he told: "And let's undersign?"
I will make small specification. At that time it was approximately in 2 thousand kilometers from me, and I gave birth to the second child just a month ago.
Then I told that I will think, expecting to think about a week, and then to refuse. But you remember that I am ready to various adventures, the main thing, is "beautiful" to present me it. And here, having had heard plenty how will be great if I arrive, 2 days later I gather and as the wife of the Decembrist I go to Siberia

At first it was the taxi to other city to take the train. But as the taxi driver was a little slowed down, I am late for the train on which counted. Following only in 5 hours.
On hands I the monthly child, in that city had neither friends, nor acquaintances, and I remain at the station. It were 5 hours of hell I even, I'm sorry, in a toilet not could descend because hands were occupied by the daughter)) everything Wanted to be thrown and will come back home. But I sustained this torture, got on the train and two days later was on the place. I even do not want to remember all "delights" of this trip.
In that small town I remained for a week, it was not without problems connected with documents, but nevertheless we undersigned.

The way back was even more interesting. If, in the train it was without incident, then on arrival in Ufa (namely from there I needed to arrive still somehow home) I understood that cash I did not have, and nearby there was no ATM
I in horror ran around this bus station, trying to think up something. But, fortunately, the world not without kind people. At the same station I met the woman with whom we went by the train, but at some point missed each other. She asked why I did not leave yet, I nearly in tears explained her a situation and then she just bought me the ticket (these are about 800 rub).
I am such bungler that for all the time of a trip even it did not ask a name, and it so helped out me! Well, in principle, all this, except for 10 hours of the bus when I was already ready to adjust fire

Tell about the hobbies, about of what you are fond in free time, except Maycharm.

Always considered herself the creative person. So creative that did not finish any business Frankly speaking, my only hobby in which I can be engaged very long time is something to write.
Tried to be engaged in needlework, but for a long time I do not last.
Though I like to knit. But for some reason this desire wakes up in me only when I am a pregnant woman. As soon as pregnancy comes to an end, all my knitting heat at all somewhere leaves. Therefore I am afraid now that I suddenly unexpectedly will have a desire something to connect
Generally, needlework not my strength.


Now I thought, than I then do in the spare time? And frankly speaking, nothing) I can just lay down and listen to music for hours and hours, I can sit and look in one point or to read something.
Here precisely, I like to read) But it occurs at me flows. I or in a volley will read books 15-20 in a month, or I can stretch one for 3 months.
Probably, it is also all my leisure. Even I will not mention about short-term hobbies)

Recently doctors and psychologists are concerned by emergence of such dependence as a nomofobiya - fear to be left without phone, without substitute communication which can always give us phone and other gadgets. How do you think, this problem really is in our society today or experts exaggerate everything? Whether you refer yourself to category of nomofob or you can quietly refuse gadgets?

It seems to me, it is even not fear, but need or dependence on gadgets. I will answer it is banal, but as is - just we live in such time.
Approximately a year ago in my life there was such period when I broke phone and I for few months felt free. Honestly! It was not necessary to call someone or to answer calls, I just enjoyed this state.
But nevertheless phone was necessary for me on work therefore it became a necessity. Whether I will be able to refuse the Internet? If there is such need or to me will be what to borrow, then yes, I will be able.
But today I am not ready to such changes. How will I be without favourite Charm?

Maycharm - the website about beauty. There is a wish to learn what is "beauty" in your understanding?

And the answer to it a question has something in common with previous, connected with zodiac sign again. Scales are judges of beauty and art therefore I in everything look for something fine.
Earlier I judged beauty, estimating only externally. Now in each person I try to see much more. And I even speak not about internal beauty of soul and the person, generally, namely now about that beauty which is estimated at the first view of the person. Noticed for herself such feature that recently I even more often pay attention to people with unusual appearance or some acquired feature, whether it be a huge scar or a burn to a sex of the person. But at the same time I look at these people not with some gloating or disgust, and on the contrary, with admiration. I am attracted by such beauty, and yes, I consider such people beautiful.
I will not even speak about beauty of acts, breadth of soul and some nobility what too at many the concept "beauty" is associated with, with it here and it is so clear.
Beauty of the man are, in general, a concept relative

If to switch the attention from people, then I will tell that I can see something beautiful everywhere. But I have the taste therefore many can not agree with my assessment
In general, I love beautiful ware, it gives pleasure to me to examine all these lovely unusual plateaus, cups and other pieces of kitchen utensils
I love candles. To me it seems that there is nothing more perfectly, than to have at itself a collection of beautiful candles Well you understand that it I about myself now, it give me pleasure too)
Probably, give me only vent - and I will begin to collect some beauty (in my opinion) in large quantities)
It I to the fact that any trifle can cause in me admiration)

In what meaning of life?

Oh, if knew, unless would be to us so difficult? It seems to me, sense in finding "the" sense. At someone it is children, at someone the soulmate, someone seeks "to promote" also other.
If to ask me whether I found the sense, then I will answer what is not present)

Finishing our conversation, I want to ask a traditional question: what would you like to wish to the maycharmelka reading our conversation?

The most important is to love itself! You are and there is the closest for itself(himself) the person!
Also I wish to find harmony and the meaning of life, and then to you everything will be at all =)

Dasha, thanks a lot for this conversation, for the interesting and developed answers! Was to recognize very abruptly you closer!

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