To become the happy woman it is necessary to dare to be different

The women important in my life of III. Svetlana Sinitsyna.

The background of our meeting with Svetlana will remain closed, I will tell only that once I felt urgent need for the good psychologist who would be: a) the woman, b) happy and realized in the family relations and c) with specialization on the love and family relations.

We were brought together by a nonrandom case, and after the first consultation I saw the light at the end of a tunnel in difficult on that moment of life of a situation.

Being itself a good psychologist, I never came before to other psychologists to the second and more consultation. Svetlana was the first in my life professional psychologist to whom I wanted to come several times.

And business was not only in original projective techniques which she uses, but, first of all, in its absolutely exact hit in an essence of my problem and surgically verified unostentatious help. I entirely settled into shape. And our relations with Svetlana developed into something more.

Thus, Svetlana marks for me very important achievement in my own self-development: ability to live in contact with the feelings.

And once you together with it made a magic training for women, having united our techniques, knowledge, experience and energy. By the way, after this training of the participant already began to marry

Svetlana, perhaps readers of wowcharm.us know nothing about you yet. Let's present that you are heard by each person of this planet, but at your order of only 50 words. Tell about yourself. Who are you, than is interesting and than is important for this world?

I am the happy woman loving and the beloved wife and mother. The hostess in the beautiful and cozy house. I hope that rather careful daughter and the good girlfriend. The professional in consciously the profession chosen by me. I like to help people, studies, to develop, self-improve and all this to me gives energy to move forward. I with pleasure share experience and knowledge with people who proved the efficiency in my life and in life of my clients. I like to create and harmonize the life in each new day and I consider the most fascinating creative process.

Yes, at you it perfectly turns out! You have a psychological formation and wide experience of family consultation, including cooperation with the known dating services in Moscow. I met many psychologists who came to psychology to deal with own problems, at you was also?

After all at first I dealt with the questions (I do not love the word of a problem), and then already came to this profession. Agree not finished the cure doctor in snivels and the coughing on the patient, leading reception and telling as will effectively cope with cold looks at least not convincingly, and even it is just strange. And to put the life in order, it is not obligatory to graduate from psychological faculty at all. It is feature of our mentality not in one country of the world I more than it did not meet, to get two higher educations and to work not by profession.

3. Um... Honor it about me, but let's change the subject. There is an ordinary opinion that dating services and dating sites are a waste of money and time, and there it is impossible to meet the good man. What advice can you give to women who do not know WHERE and HOW to find the promised?

First of all to be ready to this meeting. I think that the looking for woman will frighten rather, than will attract the potential partner. It is important to woman to develop in itself such quality as attractiveness, that is to cause desire to be in its field, it is possible to tell to pump over in himself female magnetism. Then it works already itself without some special tricks from its party. This female ability makes the woman desired and demanded. At the same time you not important get acquainted on the Internet, supermarket or marriage agency, you begin to be seen and chosen. It defines there is a wish to approach you closer or, I'm sorry, to be removed far away.

Light, you fully have this female magnetism. You teach women to change to find the half and how itself got acquainted with the husband?

And here I do not teach women to change, I help them to find myself, to get acquainted with myself, to make friends. Often come to change themselves, and for a question what you? Give the crumpled, unintelligible and uncertain answer. I always suggest to understand at first that you in yourself so do not accept and do not love and whether it is your identity and value. I prefer to changes disclosure and acceptance. With the husband the interesting story turned out. We got acquainted at the work, in the organization playing motoring in my first working day. Here it is asked what I am related to motoring. Correctly, any. And for this work I was brought by a female intuition and desire to try something new. As a result there I was late for few months, and with the husband we together fourteen years.

In what secret of family happiness? And whether it is possible in general - family happiness?

Family happiness, of course is possible, here only too all on a miscellaneous see it. Someone dreams of smooth water with the reliable person, of an emotional calm and rooms. And for someone the relation without passion is a routine and melancholy. It depends on many factors, for example on age, temperament, parental family, on the previous experience. And secrets it turns out at all different. And in general I recommend to all, to speak with each other, shares the feelings, not to save a claim of a vnutri in common to look for compromises. Yes, I think that the secret of family happiness is the built system of compromises where people meet halfway each other and are ready to take the responsibility for the relations.

It agrees with each thesis. Whether there are in your family traditions? What?

Traditions, of course, exist. They give us feeling of confidence, stability and safety, but in too time, I do not think that they have to be something archaic, rigidny, imposed. After all traditions for us, but not we for tradition. Perhaps my most favourite family tradition is to celebrate the birthdays of the house, but not at restaurant in spite of the fact that it is rather troublesome. We bring together friends at ourselves, we cook homemade food we create and we support the atmosphere of goodwill and hospitality in the house. It is always a holiday where everyone feels that are glad to it and it is important.

Today, on June 15, Svetlana has Birthday, and taking an opportunity, I congratulate happy birthday to you!

A.P. Chekhov somehow told: "Children are Saint and clean. Even at robbers and crocodiles they consist in an angelic rank. We can climb in any hole, but have to shroud them in the atmosphere, decent to their rank. It is impossible to pokhabnichat with impunity at their presence... it is impossible to do them by a toy of the mood: it is gentle to kiss, without restraint to stamp on them legs...". And what secrets and methods of education of the daughter are used by you?

There are no secrets, but there is a love, respect and acceptance.

Thanks to you I from superficial knowledge about archetypes of goddesses, plunged into this subject rather deeply, but it would be desirable to learn your opinion. To become the happy Woman realized in family and a profession in what sequence it is the best of all to develop in itself qualities of different archetypes? Let's say I felt long time as Gestiya, Dkhumavati, Demetra, but did not realize, it is how important to be in the relations Hera and Aphrodite. How to combine in itself qualities of all goddesses?

To become the happy woman it is necessary to dare to be different. But not to get stuck only in a role, mother, mistresses or daughters. Will learn to derive pleasure in different aspects of the life. Only the harmonious combination of archetypes gives feeling of completeness of life, its taste. Of course it makes sense to make active in itself that energy which will help you to be successful, in what is the most relevant for you, but not to the detriment of other states. All qualities and all palette of feelings that the picture of our life was impressive and saturated are necessary for us. Beauty is a harmony. If to speak about the relations, then in them it is not less important to be also Artemis able to protect the borders and Persefona with her ability to be flexible and Athena with her wisdom.

Here we think too and we feel on one wave! The following question - about friends. "Tell me who your friend, and I will tell who you are". Tell a couple of words about the friends.

I was very lucky, I consider that my friends as well as my family are the people sent me by God. I can talk about them for hours, but now I just want to tell that they are and it is a great luck. I am grateful to them for support and presence at my life. And of course the female friendship is)

What from ever read, endured, heard or seen abruptly changed your life, "set straight", and helped you to become that the happy Woman who you are now? Recommend to readers of this interview.

Certainly, we are influenced by everything both books and people and movies. But as you truly noticed "understanding set straight" to me that happiness is the choice and which is not made once and for the rest of life, and the choice which we make every morning opening eyes! Choose happiness, and do this every day!

Svetlana, you are a complete and harmonious person, you do by the personal example at all not less, than the techniques and consultation! Many thanks that found time for answers to my questions. It is sure that it was interesting not only me. From myself personally and from all readers I wish you "to infect" with female magnetism as much as possible women. Happiness to you and success in your new interesting projects!