Mari67na: "In people I appreciate internal purity and beauty of acts"

Hello, expensive maycharmelk! With pleasure I tell you that today in "Heart-felt dialogue" the woman – our darling and dear Marina (Mari67na) talks to us surprising beauty and talent. We meet!

Marine, hi! Thanks to you big that found time to communicate in "Heart-felt dialogue" and to tell a little in more detail about itself, about life and creativity.

The family question became traditional, it is always very interesting to learn slightly in more detail about such important element of life as family. Tell about the family – the main thing that each person has.

I do not remember the father, parents divorced when I was absolutely little, soon killed him so I had no opportunity to communicate with him. Mother raised us with the elder brother one.

Now the brother lives in other city, but for holidays comes to visit us. And I live with mother, her 80 years, with the son and his wife.

Unfortunately, with private life at me it did not develop. Around the son all my life also turned. I divorced when he was 5 years old, and I had to raise one the child. Now here I hope that my newlyweds will present to me grandsons.


Probably, many people think out to themselves ideal life, in dreams choose the country where, according to them, it is the best of all to live. Present that you had a unique opportunity to move to the permanent residence to other country. Where would you go and why?

Anywhere I from Russia and the more so from the Crimea, did not move. Do you know how at us speak? – "Further the Crimea there is no life!" And generally I never was abroad. Yes, there are still such unique persons as I. Everything somehow there was not enough money for it, there were always some needs. And during the holiday quite often it was necessary to settle on a side job.
But we in the Crimea have enough beauty, though all to look at it.

And I dreamed to live by the sea so that it from the house it was visible, and a sea smell – in an open window. But it and in the Crimea can be arranged if "unique opportunity" drops out, and I will win several millions.

Difficulties and problems surround the person throughout all his life, and it is very important to take right actions to get rid of a problem and to achieve the objectives. Tell what helps you to make the correct decision in difficult situations?

Already, likely, life experience, that, which "son of mistakes difficult". And still I, of course, always pray for a problem, and God shows an exit. It on the first place in any situation.

Tell a little about the vital principles, about vital credo – about what very often is a basis of our actions.

It is possible to tell one offer: "Treat others as you want that treated you".
If to dig slightly more deeply, then I hate lies.
Very much I value friendship.
I can forgive twice treachery. Yes, quite so at me in life it turned out, and more than once. When the person betrayed or arrived meanly, I forgave and gave still chance to our relations. But when it repeats twice, I just cease to trust the person. I can communicate, but, so to speak, "at arm's length".

Cutting to us secrets of the character – about what we, virtual friends, do not even guess.

Well, about something I told above, and about something and there is no wish to speak. But to you, my girlfriends, it is possible that you knew with whom you deal.


I am very much upset, for example, by injustice, and to other people it is even more, than in relation to itself.
I always try, than I can help people. But often I do it even then when I about it am not asked. Well, for example, the person told about some problem. And I already puzzle, I ring round all acquaintances, I look for an exit. Happy I report about it to the acquaintance, and it appears, this help also is not necessary to it. Or to girlfriends with the councils I climb. And it is necessary to them? Here and the son says to me: "Mother, when I ask for suggestions, then you will tell". And I always climb with the good where do not ask. So you if that, you brake me.

Earlier I often took offense, now learned to forgive easier. It was developed and forgave. And at once at heart it is easier.
Though, of course, it is easy to wound me – I mutter, the request not to abuse.
And still I when there is something bad, should tell about it "in confidence to the whole world". Otherwise will just break off me. I understand that it is the most natural grumble, but so far I cannot cope with it. Here now I write and I think that pronouncing every time the happened situation, I thus, likely, look for from it an exit, I wait for support at the listener. There are such people who keep everything in themselves. I not from their number.


QUIZ

1. Your favourite time of the year?
Spring and if more precisely, its second half when everything comes to life and is dismissed, and the early autumn when still heat and the nature it is as colourful as now.

2. What books by the writer you never bother?
Bible

3. Life of the happy person in five nouns.
World, family, love, health, gratitude

4. Your favorite band on the website wowcharm?
Between us, girls

5. Favourite dish?
I cannot without sweet



All of us know that you like to write stories, and it is not just stories, and the real masterpieces, each of which clings for live. Tell where you find the ideas for new works, who (or that) inspires you on creativity.

About! here on this subject I can long speak, Paragraph of the Part for me this secret is very big, and it is interesting to me how all this occurs. Let's begin with the fact that I graduated from faculty of philology. And there we had to read many books, especially before examinations. And I always caught myself on a thought: "From where the author takes a plot, the idea of the work? How does he think out all this?" For me always it remained a secret.

There passed years and there came the moment when I began to pray to God for the calling strenuously. We came to this world for what purpose, with calling which belongs only to us. And in it the person can be really happy.


And here in one evening when I prayed for it, I "saw" myself, sitting at the computer, and the Voice told me: "You will be a writer! You will translate and read worldwide".

You know, even in a fever it could not come in dream to me, and especially I did not think of it. Therefore treated it seriously.

And if God promises something, He also carries out it. Soon on one Christian resource I saw the Competition of stories. I very much wanted to take part, but I did not know as. Where to take the idea of the story? Who his heroes?
And already until the end of the competition there were three days, and I in the head had no idea. I asked God that He helped me. And I dreamed about a plot which I wrote down in the morning and sent to a competition. I did not take a prize, but the jury praised me, and I received an incentive gift. And then off it went. Plots came differently.
I will sometimes hear or will read some phrase, and for some reason I begin to reflect on it. As a result there is a story. Happens "I see" some picture before eyes. So was, for example, with the story "Forgiveness Lesson" about Roma (www.wowcharm.us/post/22147/). Three days saw before herself the tilt cart going on the dusty road felt a steppe smell, heard the Gipsy songs. Also could not understand why that God wants to tell me it, I about Roma knew nothing. For the third day I gave up and just decided to write down what "I see". Next day wrote down the following. And here as watched film, and wrote down, plainly without understanding, than business will be completed.

And there is a story so will end that I sit I sob and I ask: "Why?" So was with Bedolazhny (www.wowcharm.us/post/7830/). Put the last end to the story, and tears directly on the keyboard drip, I cannot keep.

Or to take the story "Why You Do Not Love Me?" (www.wowcharm.us/post/8708/). Read tiny article, the idea of the story, small, as usual appeared. Began to write, and the story began to stretch in a big strange story which immersed me in the past, took away deep into and intrigued. Why all so? And only the last offer in the story to me everything cleared.
Here what is it? Of course, something is given from above.

You know, I cannot speak about it to all, I am afraid of Paragraph of the Part that will twist at a temple or will take for a vrukha and the inventor. But, I hope that you will believe me.

Somehow read one writer, so he said that to write novels nearly everyone can learn. I think, he dissembles. I here, for example, began one, but he and remained at the initial stage. Each to their own, the measure of entrusted. To perfect skill – yes, it is possible to learn.

But there is a gift from God. As a last resort I without It cannot write any line. Seriously. I am a baby's dummy – any idea. Likely, therefore my short stories touch hearts of people, and many cry. Because God touches heart of the person. So for it all glory to It.
By the way, He kept the promise.
I am a Member of the Christian Union of writers of Ukraine. My stories publish in magazines and in newspapers which extend worldwide. Here even in the help the Internet. The children's book of "Fairy tales" was published in two languages. Now here signed the contract for its reprinting in Russian and Ukrainian in another, big, a format. By the way, I allowed it to translate free of charge into Uzbek in electronic option to extend in Uzbekistan. Many resources print my stories free of charge. But here as they say: for nothing received, for nothing give. And I receive the royalties for them books, in t. h at my place their already whole warehouse, Paragraph of the Part most to distribute the books not really it turns out. Here, thank you, found the readers here.


Each creator selects in the creativity the work which considers favourite, the most successful and to a large extent realized its creative potential. Tell whether you have such creation? About what it?

In all my stories the main character – the Lord. Let me also not always speak about Him, but always about its principles and laws of life. And I have no favourite story. Though I very much am pleasant to write children.

When there was my first children's book, I was surprised. And the Lord showed me one day from the childhood. We then all class went from library, I on the run thumbed through the taken book and told: "When I will grow up, I will write books for children too!"

I so obviously saw this day that I even felt smells and remembered. All and was. But why I then told it? Means, really, God prepared me for this purpose since the birth.
And from writing of stories I derive the greatest pleasure in life.
And let my books are not published by big circulations, but the fact that they are for me already big miracle.

Tell that the concept "beauty" means to you and what Maycharm attracted with?

I will not tell that to me external beauty of the person is not important. But here it is rather a neatness. Very much well-groomed women are pleasant. I, alas, do not treat them since there was no bright example, and nobody taught me to it. But to study never late, especially to learn to love and indulge itself. Maycharm to me in the help. But here I was late not because of "beauty", and because of sincere communication with you, my good. Here I have a rest soul, I learn a lot of new, very much I rejoice that I can share something with you.
And in people I appreciate internal purity and beauty of acts.


How do you consider that the main thing in life what each person should aspire to and what can make his life bright, saturated and happy?

Likely, it is three components: family, favourite business and friends.

What would you like to wish to maycharmelka which read our conversation now?

1) First of all I wish to all people that in life of everyone there was the most important meeting – a meeting good luck. That everyone recognized in It the Christ Redeemer, the Father and the Friend.
2) Write the life at once clean, it is so rapid that sometimes it is just impossible to correct the errors.
3) Try to find more reasons for joy.

Marine, thanks a lot for the interesting, full and developed answers. It is a pleasure to talk to you!