Work on itself before employment or How the appearance will help to achieve success

So, we will analyse point by point the main types of "weapon" which in skillful female hands give considerable advantages, and in many cases help to win a victory in competition for the prestigious place in solid firm.

Weapon No. 1. Positive aura
There is a remarkable theory that people with positive charisma are accompanied by harmony, happiness and success in all vital spheres. Respectively, it is easier for such women to try to obtain achievements in career and to move ahead up an office ladder.

But in order that people around always felt only positive energy which proceeds from you, it is necessary to work on improvement of personal qualities. To get rid of negative emotions and to remove nervous tension several sessions of auto-training will help (especially with a complex with the weakening music). Descriptions of versions and features of course of a training of this type can be found on the psychological websites today. But it is only the first steps on the way to internal harmony.

It is also necessary to develop in itself the positive relation to the world and people and to treat mistakes and shortcomings of people around calmly, and it is necessary to admit own shortcomings frankly to himself and to work on them.

If the girl radiates harmony and warmly from within – it is surely shown externally and even disarms people around (as well the employer), it is more difficult to them to tell such girl "no".

Weapon No. 2. Self-confidence
If the girl is confident that she is the true queen, and her mistakes are only motes along with numerous advantages, then she is capable to convince of it all surrounding including potential chief. "the favourite image" will help with it. Prepare the main secrets of female appeal to an important interview: a natural make-up, a business suit (which will allow to feel like the sure business lady), the gait fulfilled to perfection and the shining smile.

But if the natural uncertainty "forces" to stammer and you forget to tell something main and to open the best sides because of constant nervousness, it is recommended to visit previously corresponding trainings for development of self-checking and professionalism (for example, there are special trainings for managers, directors, etc.).

The main thing – confidence has to be not only external, but also internal as if inside you feel uncomfortably, your gestures and a mimicry will surely give you. Therefore if a day before the important conversation you experience nervousness and fear, it is better to spend time in pleasant communication with the best friends, to listen to favourite music, to remember the last hobbies – that is to do everything to remove stress and to prevent a slight stress.

Weapon No. 3. "Occurrence into the necessary image"
This image depends on character and specifics of work. If you settle to a creative position, the employer surely has to notice (even on appearance and behavior) the fact that you are talented, think creatively, constantly work on improvement and development of the abilities.

If the new field of activity is connected with important business projects, the chief has to see in you the serious business woman, resolute and purposeful, organized, capable to conduct important negotiations and always to be aimed at success.

Whatever was your new role – improvise, but at the same time try to be yourself – natural and unique. However all listed above points are, otherwise, elements of theoretical preparation.

If to speak about practice, at an important interview considerably will help such unimportant, at first sight, but considerable "trifles":

- the look in eyes – can emphasize confidence and positive charisma and disarm the interlocutor;

- steady voice. Daily trainings in front of the mirror will help to fulfill the accurate and correct speech;

- the steps fulfilled to automatism, movements and actions. As preliminary preparation it is possible to simulate the interview course with the girlfriend, to shoot it with phone or the video camera, to analyse shortcomings and to work over itself. But it is necessary to remain sure even if in a real situation everything will go not as it is planned;

- as a result of psychological researches it was established that people become more appeasable at meal time (and sweet in general causes positive emotions). Therefore you have more chances of success if the conversation proceeds behind a coffee cup with cakes or cakes.

THREE it "is IMPOSSIBLE" at employment:

• it is impossible to coquet frankly. It is pleasant to not everyone, and the chief can just misunderstand hints (in other words, it is not necessary to make eyes only throughout all conversation if you want to receive the place in firm);

• it is impossible to deviate from a subject. If you do not know what to answer, better openly to admit it. Also remember that long stories and memoirs not on a subject take away time which is highly appreciated by busy persons;

• it is impossible to behave so as if you already work where you try to settle. It can cause irritation.

But even if, considering all these recommendations, you do not manage to receive a desirable position – do not despair. The unsuccessful interview can become fine "rehearsal" and preparation for the following which will be obligatory for more successful.